My florist broke her wrist a week before the wedding and pulled out, I broke a front tooth and needed emergency dental work, my husband's kilt never arrived because the Scottish wool mills were on strike, my SIL forgot to bring the video camera so we have no video, we forgot to arrange speakers for my music walking down the aisle, the minister ... Your sister is a horrible sister and a horrible dog owner. For revenge, gently train her dog to like you more and to listen to you. If your parents own the place/pay the rent…unfortunately you don’t get much say. Especially when your mother is taking sis’ side. Unfortunately, your choices are move out, or get noise cancelling headphones ... Boyfriend should be banned from stepping into the house. If nothing else OP should be teaching his daughter to have more self respect than to be with a boy who knocks her up and doesn’t provide for her AND wants to leach off her parents. Banning him from the house is step 1. Lol, the daughter is just as bad.100% this. My friend had leukemia when her one daughter was 2 years old her other 9 months old. She had a month stay in the hospital. Her husband was with her every day and then at home with the girls every night. Then when she got her bone marrow transplant he was with her when she finally got home. He cleaned he put the girls to bed.Few-Extent-3804. AITA for telling my SIL no cares that she’s pregnant. Not the A-hole. I’m on mobile and my grammar will probably be bad because after today I needed to to get drunk. Backstory my cousin (33f) who I’ll call mary lost her husband (32m) and two of her three children (3f) and (9months male) in a car accident last week.Warren Buffett's sister is giving back. She donated $100 million to children's health care today. By clicking "TRY IT", I agree to receive newsletters and promotions from Money and...Scene: Mary & her husband's house. It was me, my wife, sister-in-law, her husband, my father-in-law, mother-in-law, and my wife's brother. We're sitting around and talking. After the initial concern and talks about her health, the conversation became more light-hearted. I lost it again. Yelling, I looked at my sister-in-law telling her; How dare she use my nursery, for my baby, how dare she think she has the right. What she told me, made me fall to my knees sobbing. "It's not my fault you couldn't produce a child, why let this go to waste, you're so selfish." AITA for yelling at my BIL and Husband over my BIL lending us money. I (28F) lost my job back in August. I found a part time job quickly while i searched for a new full time position to have some income but definitely making noticeably less money. My husband (27M) and I got married in September, so of course my income decreasing, along with … He’s ignoring your feelings though too. If your feelings are not more important than your sisters, bye bye to him. Minor correction, your husband is a massive red flag and you are ignoring that fact. Pack him a bag and tell him to get out until he stops gaslighting you and respect your boundaries, full stop. Maybe because sister is the golden child, given by how mom jumped to rescue baby sister in distress yet yelling at OP, the same reason she was accusing OP of. Sister obviously sounds a self-centred person, probably because of mommy's coddling 🤷♀️. NTA OP. You have nothing to apologize for and be the "bigger person".AITA for yelling at my(f31) sister(f28) over her husband(m28) Hello, This is going to come across as a bit of a rant but I can't help myself. I'm going to start from the start. My sister and I are our parents (m(62), f(59)) only children. My father went to Harvard, and my mother attended Johns Hopkins and works as a pediatrician.I (30F) told my sister (34F) that I don’t feel comfortable with her husband being in the room while I give birth to their child. My sisters been engaged to her husband for about 6 years now, and ever since she was a teen she’s always expressed the …AITA for yelling at my father. So I'm 20, and currently still live at home, the reason being that I'm doing online studies to further my education. Now yesterday after my parents got home from work, I was still busy with a few assignments, after finishing them and leaving my room, my father called me to his room, and started yelling at me ...So my sister has been dating this guy going on 3 years now and now that she's 18 and ur parents work a lot she has him over all the time. He doesn't live here but he does come over at early hours in the morning and spends the night a bit.Sister Wendy Beckett was an improbable hit as an art critic and historian. Even in the midst of frenzied TV production, Sister Wendy Beckett was able to gather herself in what one ... AITA for not yelling at my husband as he wants. Asshole. I've never been too loud. I know a lot of people start screaming and crying when they get angry, but I'm not like that. I think I look stupid when I shout, and besides, shouting gives me a headache. So I've been very quiet since I was a kid when I'm angry. Hi, I'm F27 and my sister Nicole is F30. She has a daughter, Lily (F7). Yesterday, I went over to Nicole's house to catch up. She has been fighting a lot with her husband recently so I wanted to take her mind off things. He gets mad at them for coming in and out and yells at my 3 year old daughter to shut the door and keep it shut. At this point I go in and confront him. ... (33) and 4 kids (12, 4, 3, 1.5), my sister with her husband and 2 kids (3, 1.5) and my mom and her husband (~65). ... AITA For Disinviting Friend to BBQ Over My GardenStrictly speaking, a sister-in-law’s husband is simply referred to as the spouse’s brother-in-law, presuming that the sister-in-law in question is the spouse’s sibling. An in-law r...r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.AITA for yelling at my BIL and Husband over my BIL lending us money. I (28F) lost my job back in August. I found a part time job quickly while i searched for a new full time position to have some income but definitely making noticeably less money. My husband (27M) and I got married in September, so of course my income decreasing, along with …I told her "You need to stop bitching at me when I'm literally just being a pregnant lady. I haven't even been moody with you, but you certainly have. It seems like you're just bitter because your husband who doesn't even love you wants no children and you're taking it out on me." After this, I went to pack my bags and me and my fiancé left to ...TLDR: I yelled at my SIL at my wedding that no one cares that she is pregnant after she repeatedly trued to take the attention off of my husband and I. My …Reddit users are incensed at an ‘AITA for yelling at my pregnant sister-in-law and telling my husband to choose me or her’ story. People were in agreement that the OP’s husband was well in ...She often makes fun of Zara for “looking embarrassed,” when she’s discussing, in excruciating detail, about sex. Zara barely says anything, but Angie still manages to make fun of her. I don’t speak to Angie much. Recently, Zara’s brother passed away. Angie’s husband, “Bill,” knew his partner and wanted to pass on his condolences.Like my husband didn’t want his grandma invited to my daughters birthday party because she stirs the pot and usually starts drama. I was okay with that cause it’s his family and I support him. His family has a lot of colorful words about me because I’m the one that didn’t invite her and how dare I blah blah blah. ThrowRAIceanFire. AITA for telling my sister I have Cancer when I wouldn't drink at her Gender Reveal. Advice Needed. I 28 (f) was recently diagnosed with breast cancer, it was thankfully found in the early stages and I was told with surgery and chemo I should be okay. One of the things I was told to avoid was alcohol since I would begin ... AITA for yelling at my mom over a bad birthday present. ONGOING. I am NOT the Original Poster. That is u/Strong_Candidate7468. She posted in r/AmItheAsshole. Trigger Warning: homophobia. Mood Spoiler: sad but OOP has hope for the future. Original Post: February 19, 2024. My (F17) birthday is today and I received one gift from my parents, … It looks like there is a multi-generation co-dependency with [some of] the women in your family. It sounds like you did not drink the Kool Aide. If I were Jack, I would find it difficult to forgive your sister choosing her mother’s wants over and over instead of her husband’s. AITA for yelling at my husband? My husband coughed and spit in the kitchen sink. He’s never done before as far as I know. ... AITA for "choosing my mom" over my bride to be? ... Sister Wives; 90 Day Fiance; Wife Swap; The Amazing Race Australia; Married at First Sight; The Real Housewives of Dallas; My 600-lb Life;AITA for not yelling at my husband as he wants. Asshole. I've never been too loud. I know a lot of people start screaming and crying when they get angry, but I'm not like that. I think I look stupid when I shout, and besides, shouting gives me a headache. So I've been very quiet since I was a kid when I'm angry.Highlights from MONEY's national survey exploring how married couples manage their finances. By clicking "TRY IT", I agree to receive newsletters and promotions from Money and its ...She'd say I'm deliberately ruining her time with him. My son needs feeding every 2hrs and she basically makes me beg her to hand him over to me so I could feed. last night at 10PM. MIL had my son in her arms while sitting on the couch with my husband and his dad. I was exhausted, the baby started crying.19K votes, 2.5K comments. true. Context and a very short version- when I was 17 I was in a relationship with my twin brothers best friend Jake it lasted 8 years till we were all finished collage and my ex had gotten enough money off his extremely religious parents to get a head start in life If you don’t know were this is going my brother and Jake were together …I got irritated, i said something like Just do it! She let out a huge sign and rolled her eyes in such a dramatic way and I snapped. I yelled at her, WHY CANT YOU ACT NORMAL FOR ONCE And my mom got mad at me. I started crying and ran away. My husband came after me, and my dad, who said "well, thats your sister". Oh honey he wasn't breaking stuff and getting physical with you because he was upset over your miscarriage, he was doing it because he tried to manipulate you into forgiving him so he could bring his sister back to the house and you didn't give in. Tha… AITA for yelling at my brother in law over my sister. Not the A-hole. I (39f) recently celebrated my birthday with my family. My sister Susan (36f) gifted me an expensive bracelet which I greatly appreciated. Me and Susan (fake name) have a great relationship and have been very close since childhood. However I know I wouldn’t wear it very ...Imagine the genders reversed, where you and your 6-7 guy friends go into your sister's room when she isn't present and rummage through her innerwear. Then you'd give her a lame apology and tell her you were "just curious", "was peer pressured" and that you "didn't think you cared much about your privacy". Sort by: Judgement_Bot_AITA. • 2 yr. ago •. Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I yelled at my mother in law and looking back on it I might have been the asshole because I ... Sister Wives; 90 Day Fiance; Wife Swap; The Amazing Race Australia; ... I 39f my husband Tom 37m and 2 sons 12m were recently in a house fire and lost our home but luckily we were all out the house when this happened. ... When we get our place sorted only SIL and my kid's cousins will be allowed over. My SIL has called to apologise for BIL's ...AITA for yelling at my husband because he hid the fact that he once used to be homeless? My husband John and I have been married for a few years. A few days ago, we were going somewhere & passed through a homeless family. To my surprise, John went towards them to give them a lot of money. He offered to also take them home for lunch.Well they are refusing to speak to my husband and I, which is why they left. My sister literally told my mother her family was leaving “so we don’t risk running into her” when my family had planned a whole day AWAY from our hotel so that my son wasn’t interrupting their “family day” at the motel pool (my youngest and their oldest are the same age and Love to be together) My mother ...SpiritualTea640. ADMIN MOD. AITA for screaming at my sister and telling her she is not actually pregnant. Not the A-hole. I (35F) am pregnant with my sisters (30F) child. My sister was has some fertility issues and is not able to have a safe pregnancy. I offered to carry the baby for her and her husband. I am now currently 6 1/2 months along ...Imagine the genders reversed, where you and your 6-7 guy friends go into your sister's room when she isn't present and rummage through her innerwear. Then you'd give her a lame apology and tell her you were "just curious", "was peer pressured" and that you "didn't think you cared much about your privacy". Oh honey he wasn't breaking stuff and getting physical with you because he was upset over your miscarriage, he was doing it because he tried to manipulate you into forgiving him so he could bring his sister back to the house and you didn't give in. Tha… I walked my sister down the aisle at her wedding this weekend and did a special dance with her knowing our mother's husband wanted to be the one to do it and knowing he wasn't told he wouldn't be. I know he was the man of the house and I know he did try to give us both a good life and wanted to be a dad, so it might be a cold asshole move to do ...My daughter ended up getting mad at her mom and told her she wasn't sad he was gone, he was an ass and she had always hoped she would leave him. She stormed off and my son followed. Ex was going crazy and I yelled and told her to cut it out and to stop trying to make our kids perform a grieving routine over her husband.Jews, Arabs, Muslims, the Middle East, any big-name American politician—regardless of whatever context they’re cloaked in, Zo just doesn’t want to hear it. Every sibling relationsh...My brother just started laughing. That ended the dinner for the night. I tried to contact my sister, but found that she had blocked my number and my husband's. At lunch with friends days later, they said my sister told them that I tried to ostracize my brother from the family over her announcement.I hadn't yelled all week. I had done such an excellent job of self-talking my way out of just reacting to my three kids' misbehavior with frustration, and I had... Edit Y... The cow that was slaughtered was one that my husband gave as part of my marriage agreement: her husband never did that so there's no cow to kill. She chose to carve her own path and turn her back on our ways - nobody forced her to stick to our customs, so she can't force us to stickto our end of the deal. My daughter ended up getting mad at her mom and told her she wasn't sad he was gone, he was an ass and she had always hoped she would leave him. She stormed off and my son followed. Ex was going crazy and I yelled and told her to cut it out and to stop trying to make our kids perform a grieving routine over her husband. My brother just started laughing. That ended the dinner for the night. I tried to contact my sister, but found that she had blocked my number and my husband's. At lunch with friends days later, they said my sister told them that I tried to ostracize my brother from the family over her announcement.Update: Wow, I was not expecting this to blow up, or for so many people to have such strong feelings about bread. Thank you for all of your input, especially my sister who unexpectedly chimed in. This may be the most validating experience of 7 years of living together. I shared this with my husband, and he accepts his AH status and apologized.She'd say I'm deliberately ruining her time with him. My son needs feeding every 2hrs and she basically makes me beg her to hand him over to me so I could feed. last night at 10PM. MIL had my son in her arms while sitting on the couch with my husband and his dad. I was exhausted, the baby started crying.Talk with your husband & make it known that you’re over the disrespect from his sister & niece & that from now on they’re not allowed at your house. Set boundaries bc they’re wrecking your mental well-being. It seems like your husband has your back in this bc he’s gotten on his sister in the past & that’s good.AITA for yelling at my(f31) sister(f28) over her husband(m28) Hello, This is going to come across as a bit of a rant but I can't help myself. I'm going to start from the start. My … My boyfriend and his sister were sitting directly across from one another and his sister said the chicken she cooked tasted so good and she wanted my boyfriend to taste it so she cut a piece onto her fork and leaned over the dinner table my boyfriend and my boyfriend leaned over and, with his mouth, took a bite of the chicken while he had some ... AITA for yelling at my daughter and husband. A little background first, I (30F) am currently on maternity leave after having my second daughter who is now 2 months old. My husband (31M) works full time, so I am home taking care of my baby, Lilli, and my other daughter, Sara (5F). Sara has always come to me for things more than my husband.r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole. Your sister is a horrible sister and a horrible dog owner. For revenge, gently train her dog to like you more and to listen to you. If your parents own the place/pay the rent…unfortunately you don’t get much say. Especially when your mother is taking sis’ side. Unfortunately, your choices are move out, or get noise cancelling headphones ... My cousin got with her husband by him cheating on his then wife. My cousin is always shocked and upset each and every time he cheated on her. She would fuss about it on Facebook and I almost spit out my drink when her husband's ex chimed in and reminded my cousin that she got him by his cheating and kept losing him by it. AITA for not yelling at my husband as he wants. Asshole. I've never been too loud. I know a lot of people start screaming and crying when they get angry, but I'm not like that. I think I look stupid when I shout, and besides, shouting gives me a headache. So I've been very quiet since I was a kid when I'm angry. AITA for calling my sister a jealous hag because she got judgy over my husband making me an Easter basket? My husband and I do Easter baskets for one another, and this year he gave me mine early since I’ll be gone. In the basket was the usual, dark choco bunny, Starburst jelly beans, and then some Swiftie stuff from Etsy, a fidget toy, and ...AITA for yelling at my sister? Hi, I'm F27 and my sister Nicole is F30. She has a daughter, Lily (F7). Yesterday, I went over to Nicole's house to catch up. She has been fighting a …From what my daughter says, she tried to talk and show her art but my niece ignored her. My niece was drawing on her phone, so my daughter tried to see and thats when the argument started. So my niece dropped my daughters tablet and grabbed the bag. My niece wouldn’t talk, she just shrugged whenever we asked. I was furious, so I yelled at …Once my sister was watching my daughter she had come home from a doctor appointment and they had given my daughter a sticker and she was very small and when my sister got her out of the car she could not find the sticker she had some thought in her head that she must have tried to swallow it so she called ambulance they never found the sticker ... He’s ignoring your feelings though too. If your feelings are not more important than your sisters, bye bye to him. Minor correction, your husband is a massive red flag and you are ignoring that fact. Pack him a bag and tell him to get out until he stops gaslighting you and respect your boundaries, full stop. The problem is my sister. She came up to me accusing me of cheating with my best friend (27M). Her accusations went along the lines of: 'I just want you to know that I know that you're cheating, and that your husband deserves better. He needs a woman who actually can fulfill his needs'.I understand that you’re overwhelmed but why did you invite her while you were exhausted. She probably took the as an invitation to vent and talk and that you were ready to listen to her. YTA for letting her come over only to yell at her. NTA for not wanting to be a trauma dump all the time. 2.There are certain situations where you may find it to be in your best interest financially to take over your husband's car payments. Whether you have decided to do this because you...AITA for yelling at my(f31) sister(f28) over her husband(m28) Hello, This is going to come across as a bit of a rant but I can't help myself. I'm going to start from the start. My sister and I are our parents (m(62), f(59)) only children. My father went to Harvard, and my mother attended Johns Hopkins and works as a pediatrician.Highlights from MONEY's national survey exploring how married couples manage their finances. By clicking "TRY IT", I agree to receive newsletters and promotions from Money and its ...The other men who've married into the family have get togethers and days out: he was invited once then never again. I recently had a baby and my parents slaughtered a cow …Strictly speaking, a sister-in-law’s husband is simply referred to as the spouse’s brother-in-law, presuming that the sister-in-law in question is the spouse’s sibling. An in-law r... I told her "You need to stop bitching at me when I'm literally just being a pregnant lady. I haven't even been moody with you, but you certainly have. It seems like you're just bitter because your husband who doesn't even love you wants no children and you're taking it out on me." After this, I went to pack my bags and me and my fiancé left to ... NTA. If she thought you might be okay with it she would have asked you how you felt about naming her baby after your husband. It’s weird to name your baby after your sister’s husband, doesn’t matter if he’s alive or dead. She should’ve asked you. Of course you don’t own the name, but it looks super weird.We argued for a bit, which was mainly him yelling at me, before my sister came downstairs and my husband shut up. After that, my husband went back to his parents' house to "clear his head", and two-three hours later, my MIL called to scold me about laughing in my husband's face, because apparently it was kicking him while he was down.AITA for yelling at my (f31) sister (f28) over her husband (m28) Hello, This is going to come across as a bit of a rant but I can't help myself. I'm going to start from the start. My …My boyfriend and his sister were sitting directly across from one another and his sister said the chicken she cooked tasted so good and she wanted my boyfriend to taste it so she cut a piece onto her fork and leaned over the dinner table my boyfriend and my boyfriend leaned over and, with his mouth, took a bite of the chicken while he had some ...And this woman gave her sister an earful when she did her husband’s laundry for him. But did she act like an a**hole? Check out her story below to see what the heck is going on here. AITA for berating my sister for doing my husband’s laundry? “My f31 sister f23, moved in with me and my husband m29 a week ago.AITA for yelling at my sister after stealing my food and getting me in trouble . ... My (39F) Ex husband (37M) is insisting I change my last name back to my maiden name because his new fiancé (24F) feels it will be awkward for her and I to have the same last name. ... AITA for kicking out my sister for her emo outfit and telling her she can go ...Your sister is a horrible sister and a horrible dog owner. For revenge, gently train her dog to like you more and to listen to you. If your parents own the place/pay the rent…unfortunately you don’t get much say. Especially when your mother is taking sis’ side. Unfortunately, your choices are move out, or get noise cancelling headphones ...AITA I’m married. My wife’s mother insists she visits her regularly (every week) and stays the night. This happens very frequently (around every other week now) and usually my wife pops over Saturday morning and comes back late Sunday night. It’s about a …In an awkward situation, my sister's husband has strong body odor. When she unexpectedly plans to ride with me for a 9-hour trip, I opt for a flight. Drama e...If you're interested in knowing what your husband's financial situation is, you can inspect his credit report, sometimes known as running a credit check. While you cannot simply ru...AITA for yelling at my sister and telling her I want my money back. My (40m) sister, Rachel (29f) escaped a bad marriage with her daughter Katrina (8f) almost 8 months ago. My other sister Jillian (34f) lived in the same state as them so she and her husband offered to take them in and they set up a gofundme to help Rachel get back on her feet.AITA for yelling at my sister? Hi, I'm F27 and my sister Nicole is F30. She has a daughter, Lily (F7). Yesterday, I went over to Nicole's house to catch up. She has been fighting a …The problem is my sister. She came up to me accusing me of cheating with my best friend (27M). Her accusations went along the lines of: 'I just want you to know that I know that you're cheating, and that your husband deserves better. He needs a woman who actually can fulfill his needs'.Why do moms yell? Because we’re overwhelmed. Because no one’s listening. Because our kids are about to get hurt. “Don’t put your hand in the...
Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I told my sister her baby name is stupid and her husband is right 2) I could've been nicer about it and I refused to talk about it further when she …. Puka nacua or courtland sutton
AITA for yelling at my fiancé for ordering a dress? NTA. Does she frequently/always run roughshod over you like that? Do you have different bodies and her style will really not look great on you? Why the HECK is she being so pushy about this??? 12K subscribers in the MarkNarrations community."AITA for yelling at my sister to stop blaming our brother for her husband’s cheating with his wife?" No-Advertising8278. This past summer, my (F29) family had the shock of a lifetime. We found out that my older sister Kayla's (F32) husband, Eric (M34), was cheating on her with our brother Greg's (M35) wife, Megan (F30).ADMIN MOD. AITA for yelling at my mother in law when she demanded a paternity test before the wedding. Using a throwaway so I can get an impartial opinion since the two halves of our families are so completely split over this mess. I apologize for the length of this post. I (20f) am getting married in an official ceremony in a few months to my ...Once my sister was watching my daughter she had come home from a doctor appointment and they had given my daughter a sticker and she was very small and when my sister got her out of the car she could not find the sticker she had some thought in her head that she must have tried to swallow it so she called ambulance they never found the sticker ...Now she feels like she is reliving it by possibly loosing her “new” Dad. She needs distractions and she needs “love” in other forms, Aka from friends. And based on age math,OP got with Step Dad when son was only 1yo. So new baby = father (figure) leaving. Also, she is a girl and the new baby is a girl.Last night, My husband agreed that he'd cook for her and cook for us together seperately. I got home after a long day at work and found out that SIL convinced my husband to only cook the meal she wanted and cancel on the meal we planned to have. I saw them eating together in the kitchen. My husband apologitically said his sister convinced him ...(1) I backed out of paying for my sister's wedding dress over a joke she made. (2) I might be the AH because I made her a promise and I'm breaking it and might be damaging my relationship with my sister over a joke. Help keep the sub engaging! Don’t downvote assholes! Do upvote interesting posts! Click Here For Our Rules and Click Here For ...AITA for telling my sister that she overreacted when screamed at me for entering hers and her husband's room? Asshole. So, I (f23) am a full time college student. Right now …"AITA for yelling at my mom over a bad birthday present?" My (F17) birthday is today and I received one gift from my parents, an expensive jewelry set that came with matching earrings, necklace and bracelet. ... My sister (F19) gets the same, but she is a girly girl and loves it. My brother (M16) usually gets gaming gear of about the …My mother worked 2 jobs. We barely saw her and I was taking care of my younger siblings. Anyways, my mother told me that she would divorce him and never contact him again. Fast forward a few years later. He was released from prison. His sentence was cut short since he pleaded guilty for 2 counts (me and my sister) of sexual abuse.Tell your sister that she can judge your parenting when her kids are perfect. You're doing the right thing. If she doesn't see any repercussions for her actions, then she'll just continue to get in trouble. "The school already punished …The problem is my sister. She came up to me accusing me of cheating with my best friend (27M). Her accusations went along the lines of: 'I just want you to know that I know that you're cheating, and that your husband deserves better. He needs a woman who actually can fulfill his needs'. It looks like there is a multi-generation co-dependency with [some of] the women in your family. It sounds like you did not drink the Kool Aide. If I were Jack, I would find it difficult to forgive your sister choosing her mother’s wants over and over instead of her husband’s. Now, I love my sister-in-law and we’re like sisters since we grew up together which is why I felt comfortable telling her to stop. I spoke up after she started yelling at my brother for making her into a “whale”. He kept apologising to her and everybody was coddling her and telling her how beautiful she was and how she didn’t look big ... My daughter ended up getting mad at her mom and told her she wasn't sad he was gone, he was an ass and she had always hoped she would leave him. She stormed off and my son followed. Ex was going crazy and I yelled and told her to cut it out and to stop trying to make our kids perform a grieving routine over her husband. What parent hasn't lost their temper when a kid misbehaves? Of course a parent who hasn't lost their cool from time to time is a rarer than a unicorn, but losing your temper and y... Your sister is a horrible sister and a horrible dog owner. For revenge, gently train her dog to like you more and to listen to you. If your parents own the place/pay the rent…unfortunately you don’t get much say. Especially when your mother is taking sis’ side. Unfortunately, your choices are move out, or get noise cancelling headphones ... Imagine the genders reversed, where you and your 6-7 guy friends go into your sister's room when she isn't present and rummage through her innerwear. Then you'd give her a lame apology and tell her you were "just curious", "was peer pressured" and that you "didn't think you cared much about your privacy"..